Perhaps you find yourself spending a lot of time alone these days. Do you struggle with how to spend that time? Although you have plenty of things you’d like to accomplish, getting focused and staying that way seems to be a challenge when you’re alone.
Are you wasting precious, solitary hours that you could be spending more productively? Now’s the time!!! Stop thinking abut how it was so great on “the other side” and remember you have a wealth of energy, knowledge and the will to change your life right now. You’ve always known you did, but were kind of afraid of the newness of it, that’s all. The more you leave your old habits that aren’t serving you and do the things you feel good about, the easier they get and the better you get at them!
Consider these benefits of being alone:
1. Do whatever you want. Being alone means you’re completely in charge of your decisions. How often does that happen? You get to select what you want to do each hour that you’re without company. Think of it as being rich with time.
* Need to clean the garage? Want to learn how to speak Spanish or German? Never finished that sewing or wood-carving project?
* Having alone time means you can accomplish all those things you’ve been putting off.
2. Set a goal and achieve it. Now, that you have no distractions, take some time and set one or two goals. Write them down. List the steps you’ll need to follow to achieve each goal and check off each step as they’re completed.
* You have the power and time to make even your wildest dreams come true.
3. Take up a hobby you’ve been considering. Maybe you’ve had a secret desire to participate in a certain pastime that appeals to you. What’s stopping you? At least, make a call of inquiry about getting involved or observe people engaging in the activity.
4. Read more. Feed the mind. Reading will broaden your horizons and make you a more interesting person. Read what you already love or try a new genre.
* If reading has been less than appealing in the past, go to the library and pick out a book on a subject that interests you. Select a classic novel, a biography of a celebrity who peaks your interest, or a how-to book.
5. Exercise. If you’re alone a lot, then you have plenty of time to get in the best shape of your life. Design your own exercise plan. Include a schedule for when you’ll exercise and the type of exercise you’ll do. Then follow through. You can even change it up to keep it interesting.
* You can be proactive and overcome any physical fitness or health issues you may have.
* Can you imagine becoming the healthy, vibrant person you’ve yearned to be? It’s definitely within your reach.
6. Start some soul-searching. What do you want out of life? When you’ve thought about the life you want to live, you’ll be more likely to obtain it. Spend some time considering what’s important to you and what you hope to accomplish in your lifetime. Having extra alone-time means you can create the very life you desire.
7. Become really good at something. Nothing makes us feel better than to know that we can do at least one thing really well.
* Maybe for you, it’s playing the guitar, doing yoga, or writing a children’s book. Whatever it is, spend some of your solitary time practicing to become the best you can be at something. It’ll be a great confidence-builder.
Alone time is more than it’s cracked up to be. When you’re alone, you have an abundance of time to spend in ways that bring you the opportunity to learn, achieve, and enjoy your life. Relish the time you spend alone. It gives you the power to do anything you want. Your time is now!